Twin Flames & Soul Mates
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Beloved human angels, an issue that many of us are concerned with is the relationship with our Soul Mates and Twin Flames, so I will try to expand on it through the perspective of the Spirit...
As long as the understanding and acceptance of the idea that your soul and your higher self will bring into your life a perfect partner when you are ready is growing within you, then relationship issues will no longer stress you out. As this knowledge takes root within, it will give you the patience to wait for the partner that the Spirit intends for you.
Relationships on the New Earth will not manifest in the conventional and expected ways it used to do up until now. More emphasis will be given to the union of the two souls, in communication and love, which will hold their fields, while less emphasis will be given to the material structures of a relationship, as it was known up till now.
Relationships will generally develop at a slower pace and will last much longer than the ones ruled by the old energy. Both will be educated to love within the frame of the relationship and at the same time to enjoy full autonomy, having the ability of self expression. Together they will be the Monad and at the same time each one will be responsible for his/her own personal evolution, as two separate beings evolving in parallel evolutionary paths and together at the same time. Through this partnership they will find great joy, happiness and endless love.
Who are our Soul Mates?
Let’s now explain who our Soul Mates are and why they come into our lives. Soul Mates may be some friends and loved ones who respond positively to our love. We are closely connected to them and we usually share a spiritual path and purpose.
A Soul Mate might be a person who is here to help us in our evolution. You can recognize him/her because this person often seems to know a lot about you and enjoys sharing several things with you and all that is happening between you help you, in many ways, to open your heart. It might be a person you are connected to from previous lifetimes and you now continue this well developed relationship or someone you meet for the first time here on Earth.
Most of us have many Soul Mates who accompany us on our life journey. You might already be in a similar relationship with friends or partners. A Soul Mate can appear in your life as a partner, a precious friend, or even your child. You might share a spiritual path; have a common job or commitment, for example to be the parents of particular souls. A Soul Mate might be a person you are responsible for his/her development, like a child.
Soul Mates are created at the soul level, therefore there are different types and ways of expression of these relationships, due to the desire of the soul to live these experiences and evolve through the wheel of rebirth.
Who is our Twin Flame?
The source of your Twin Flame is the very essence of your soul. It has been created in the ocean of love of our Father/Mother God. This essence of the One is divided in exactly two equal and opposite wave forms with the purpose to manifest in form. In the beginning they were united as one perfect sphere, in one centre, a common equator, in a zero point and were functioning as one monadic triadic extension and expression of the Divine One.
As the third dimensional experience of our incarnations was unfolding, they were divided from the initial union and entered a system of duality, which lead us in an unstable condition, which expresses itself through two extended and divided forms. Twin Flames are returning this time in union, through all the dimensional frequencies, in order to restore the unity of God’s creations and end duality. So there is only one true tonal Twin Flame partner expressed as male or female, looking for his/her complementary half. It is the exact opposite wavelength of our frequency.
It is important to understand the difference between Twin Flames and Soul Mates. There is only one couple of people who are Twin Flames, which is a complete union with our other half and the essence of this relationship cannot be replaced by another partner. Contrary to that, Soul Mates appear in our lives in several forms and in different frequencies. So we could say that a Soul Mate is someone with whom we had several experiences in previous incarnations.
The fall of the myth of the Prince on the white horse!
First of all you have to release the thought that a Soul Mate will come into your life to fulfill all your expectations. If you really want to attract a partner for life like a Soul Mate into your life, there are many illusions you should abandon. The first is that you will spend your whole life with him/her. You may have a relationship of a few weeks, months or years. The time that you will spend together has nothing to do with the quality of your connection (as Soul Mates) and how important you consider it to be in your life.
You might spend a whole life with a Soul Mate or complete the lessons you need to take and fulfill the higher purpose of your union within a few months or years. Do not measure the importance of your relationship by the time you spent together.
Another illusion is that only a Soul Mate could be the real partner of your life. Maybe you already had a relationship with a Soul Mate and it was truly based on sharing, caring for each other, and love, which furthered your spiritual growth and evolution. The fact that this external connection is over does not mean that it was not a Soul Mate relationship.
There are many Soul Mates who are suitable for a relationship with you and when the time is ripe for him/her to appear in your life, you will know it. It is important to remember that the partner we attract in our life at a certain moment depends on the lessons we need to take and the path we have chosen to follow. It also depends on how ready our Soul Mate is at this given time to have a relationship with us in a spirit of love.
Whenever you find yourselves in a Soul Mate relationship you need to let go of the widespread illusion and myth: that it will fulfill all your expectations and give you whatever you desire from the moment you got together. Do not expect your ideal Soul Mate to be somebody who will express him/herself with tenderness and affection, or that it will be easy to live together in complete agreement, or that he will make life easy and comfortable for you.
Like the coin that has two sides, you may sometimes experience all of the above. However, there may other times when this person might be a challenge in your life to teach you to love as your soul really loves. Soul Mates always bring evolution and maturity in our lives and offer us many chances for awakening our heart chakra. Sometimes this whole process is easy, sometimes it is not. Relationships with Soul Mates offer remarkable chances to work on our soul level. Presently, the new energy brings forth the reunion of the Twin Flames with the purpose to restore unity in God’s Creations and finally end duality!
Twin Flames in the service of a higher purpose
Many are idealizing the idea of the Twin Flame. We need, my friends, to always keep a balanced attitude towards life. We need to remember that the union of two Twin Flames is very carefully orchestrated by the Divine Mind in order for them, united together, to bring harmony and balance in the third dimension. As a result, this is powerfully reflected upon all dimensions and fields of our local universe.
Do not expect dinners with candles and bouquets of roses in this union, not because it can not happen in a Twin Flame relationship but because this is not the higher purpose of this sacred union. The Divine Plan that exists for this union is: to anchor harmony and balance on Earth through service.
That is why personal preferences, relationships, commitments and separate duties are put aside so that absolute devotion to the Divine Plan becomes the only reality that the Twin Flames are serving together. If we approach the Twin Flame beyond the human perspective, then we see a powerful and supreme force of Divine Power in motion.
The question is, are you ready for a life of service?
The Twin Flame will come after inner fulfillment
We need to underline now that it is right to enter a Twin Flame relationship only when both of you are in a stage of inner fulfillment. When you have achieved a stable level of inner completion you will start to attract your Divine other half or your Twin Flame.
As you continue to live devoted to the path of your evolution, when you least expect it or the moment that you do not really feel the need for a relationship, then he or she will appear in your life. If you already are in a relationship, I advise you not to try to attract your Twin Flame in your life, before you end the present one. The energy bond of the present relationship needs to be cut off and all the frequencies which are not in harmony to balance. It is also important to take under consideration one more parameter. After you meet, you need some time in order to align your frequency with the complementary frequency of your Twin Flame.
This is very important because when Twin Flames unite, then everything around them receives a boost. Many aspects of their lives are enhanced due to the united field and the no-time state they enter, as they have common access to the higher dimensional frequencies. Whatever is in harmony in their lives becomes stronger and whatever is not becomes stronger as well. If, my friends, you haven’t achieved inner unity with balance then many things will probably get out of balance in your life. Small problems will become huge obstacles.
Because of this, Twin Flames may not be able to balance in their union, unless they have already managed to find inner union and completion. But at this point there is still a continuous challenge to remain in balance, as frequencies and octaves increase.
When you enter into a relationship with your Twin Flame, the ability of your consciousness to move inter-dimensionally increases considerably and this applies to both of you. At this point you have to acknowledge that you are not here to play the game of human relationships but you both need to act in unison as a bridge for the higher multi-dimensional frequencies of the Divine Source.
For this reason, in a relationship of Twin Flames both need to be fully conscious and accept that each one may retire multi-dimensionally any time he/she feels so and by doing so all human emotional reactions between them will be avoided. If it seems that what you say are not heard or your partner does not respond to your call, you need to acknowledge the service to the Divine Plan and that your partner does not have to respond to insignificant expressions of the human mind. Twin Flames are always in a constant field of no time. They are used by the Divine Mind to anchor frequency codes on this dimension.
Remember, my friends, that coding and decoding of frequencies takes place in a unified field of no time. Now is the time that you need to be willing to let go of emotional and dissonant reactions that emerge. I advise you not to try to put a Twin Flame relationship into a human interaction frame as it does not belong there. If you get angry with your partner, let it subside and release it. It is only an illusion, it is your personality that receives a challenge at that moment from your ego. It does not help if you stay in anger more than five minutes. Let go, it is an illusion. Do not let your mind and the ego give reason and justify such reactions. Remember, we have to handle a huge amplification of all aspects...
If it happens, then search for balance within.
Twin Flames have one identity!
A Twin Flame relationship is androgynous. For this reason you might need some time to adapt and recognize it. In this relationship you may not feel like a female nor like a male. You will definitely ask yourself, What Am I?
As you conclude your initiation at an inner unity level, you will realize that there is no polarity in this relationship. None of you holds the role of the man or woman, simply because both are One! There is one consciousness, one essence in this attempt of amalgamation. Since both come from the same essence, then who is who?
What I have just described becomes a challenge between Twin Flames, in the beginning they fight for personal recognition within Unity, which does not exist anymore. If I am you and you are me, then who am I? The nucleus of the cells is fused in one for these two incarnations of the Twin Flames. So they are aligned again with their primary sphere, with one center of gravity, one common equator and one zero point. Now you might ask yourself how you can identify yourself as two different beings. Simply you can’t! But you can choose to continue to fight for your personal recognition as much as you wish. It will not lead you anywhere.
What the Twin Flame needs to bring to the forefront of life and anchor it firmly into the earth plane is completion and sharing in Unity, leaving each one, in this relationship, to show his abilities without personal identification to the result and without claiming personal promotion through the results, as if they belonged to him/her. Resemblance is the harmonic tone and difference is the opposite fluctuation. So, when we say that Twin Flames are one essence does it mean that they are exactly the same? Do they have the same qualities and abilities? Do they have the same strengths and weaknesses? Do they have the same preferences and dislikes?
There is only one answer to these questions: They are complementary! They are completely equivalent and of opposite wavelength, that is why their unity creates a harmonic tone! So what you will discover is that, each one holds the opposite or the complementary Divine qualities within the Whole. Therefore we do not try to become what the other person is; on the contrary we allow the full expression of our Twin Flame within unity. That is why each one brings the complementary frequency of the harmonic tone. Each one in this relationship bears the corresponding complementary training and talents to support this sacred Union and the Divine Plan. Therefore, Twin Flames when together multiply their strengths in an accelerated rhythm.
No mistakes are allowed: Twin Flames will never meet if they do not have full ability to fulfill their mission to surpass male-female duality of this planetary system and form the harmonic tone. Consequently, it is not necessary anymore to play the widespread, defined roles of society, but it would be better to attune to the harmonic tone of full completion through the dimensional frequencies and listen to the song of the One.
How will you know that you have met your Twin Flame?
Initially you experience together several changes, through unusual situations completely unexpected. There is a sudden feeling that you know each other. You feel a deep and immediate connection. You have an intense electromagnetic connection that cannot be described with words. The relationship is so present, as if no time has passed since the last time you were together. You feel a deep union that you have never felt before.
This connection brings you feelings that you have never had before and that it would have been highly unlikely to experience. That is why you are inseparable; when you look at each other’s eyes time and space have no meaning. Your discussions seem to never end. There is a big desire to serve humanity in a deep and meaningful way. You give without expecting a reward. There is a special sacredness in this relationship which surpasses anything you have experienced in the past.
Karma is released in your flame of complete forgiveness and unconditional love. No-one depends on the other for self-definition. You think that your feelings have no limits. You have an overwhelming sense of eternity. Your feelings towards each other are very spiritual.
You both know without doubt that you are together for a reason. You do not compete each other or pretend. There is no doubt that you feel whole through each other. There is trust, patience and acceptance of the other person’s weaknesses and a huge sense of purpose. Sexual expression is sacred and celebrates unconditional love. When you look at the other person’s eyes you see yourself and have a feeling of completion that cannot be compared with any other feeling.
There is no doubt that some of the feelings I describe above are common in relationships with Soul Mates as well. What make the Twin Flames distinguish from the others is the degree of completion you have and the strong sense of spiritual uniqueness between you two. Twin Flames desire to serve humanity in a substantial way. There is also a very intense and sacred feeling of intimacy with a continuous sense of divine, inspired wholeness that you can only find through a Twin Flame relationship.
It does not occur by chance nor without purpose.
Paschalis Kazakopoulos.